Before marriage, I thought Ansen and I were the perfect match. We both grew up with sheltie dogs and loved them dearly.
In the beginning of marriage it was discovered that I was against loaded guns in the house and he was a against dogs in the house . . . not so perfect of a union after all. The set up became we'd trade - a dog or a gun.
Over the years, Ansen has gathered a supply of "special tools" and I have not acquired A dog in return. By all accounts, I think that I should have 10 dogs by now.
The problem escalated by our children's love of dogs. Let's not forgot Addie's first sentence was - "It's my buddy Rowdy (my family dog)" and that she was only motivated to potty train so she could earn a dog leash for her fake dogs.
Addie's letter to Rowdy towards the end for him . . . "Rowdy, We love you, we want you to stay alive. Rowdy, we can give you the shot."
Our vacation to Oregon was a memorable one because the girls never forgot Burton and Abby that they spent the week with at my Aunt & Uncle's house.
I knew we could have a dog, but I wanted it to be indoors and I wanted Ansen not to hate it.
We played with all the neighborhood dogs. Lisa and Matt got Susan and then Sophie, which kept us content.
Two years ago Ansen relented and a dog was to be my birthday present . . . but we
couldn't commit and lucky for use we didn't because I got in my car accident. (And don't worry . . . Ansen did not miss an opportunity to remind me how thankful we were to not have that dog through all of the recovery).
So then I had to start all over with talking Ansen into it and going through the research of our family's "perfect dog."
In the meantime, we also became the best dog sitters around.
We were conditioning Ansen . . .
And it got harder to ignore the joy in their hearts.